An apt metaphor for situations in life where respect is lacking. This feeling of invisibility is a clear sign that it might be time to leave the table. 

When you notice that you are not being heard, such as in a meeting where your input is ignored, this is an important indicator to stand up. A second signal of disrespect is lack of appreciation, noticeable when your efforts go unnoticed. In such situations, you feel like an invisible ghost, present but unrecognised, both in professional and personal relationships. 

The feeling of discomfort, similar to sitting on a chair of nails, serves as a clear indication that it is time to leave. The decision to leave the table does not mean you are giving up, but that you are choosing an environment where you will get the respect you deserve. This choice is a sign of strength, self-respect and self-love. 

It is essential to stand up for yourself; if you don't, who will? Ultimately, you leave the disrespectful situation and find a place where you are welcomed, appreciated and respected, like a table where the steak is just right